refactor: v0.8 Iteration B — cruft purge + ALPN bump to itsgoin/4

Zero-users ruling removes all wire-compat obligations. Net -1,443 LOC of Rust.

Protocol break:
- ALPN_V2 b"itsgoin/3" -> ALPN b"itsgoin/4" (renamed: the versioned name was
  what rotted). Old nodes are now refused at the QUIC handshake instead of
  half-interoperating with the v0.8 manifest/digest formats. Deploy gate from
  Iteration A is discharged.

Dead wire surface removed (MessageType 46 -> 40):
- DeleteRecord 0x51 (deletes ride ControlOp::DeletePost + InitialExchange)
- VisibilityUpdate 0x52 + its two dead senders (ControlOp::UpdateVisibility)
- SocialDisconnectNotice 0x71 (zero senders; checkin timeouts carry the signal)
- MeshPrefer 0xB3 + request_prefer + handler (preferred peers are gone)
- Legacy dual pull-matching half (have_post_ids) — behavior-identical
- PullSyncResponse.visibility_updates + counters (control posts cover it)
- serde(default) stripped from wire-only payloads (kept where
  skip_serializing_if makes it load-bearing; persisted-row defaults untouched)

Preferred-peer subsystem eliminated (design ruling: CDN file_holders replaced
the N+10 direct push/pull it served): slot tier, preferred_peers table (dropped),
preferred_tree semantics, rebalance Priority 0, find_relays_for preferred tiers,
7-day prune + 30-day watcher, dead FromStr impl. Slots are now Local/Wide only
(91 desktop / 12 mobile) pending Iteration C's single ~20-slot pool.

Other dead code: hostlist encoder + base64url helper, always-empty
downstream_addrs parameter chain, start_upnp_renewal_cycle no-op + 4 callers,
RELAY_TARGET_RATE_LIMIT, GetSecretSeed, stale comments swept.

Preserved deliberately: EDM scanner corpse (awaiting raw-UDP refactor),
PortScanHeartbeat, Iteration A startup migrations, session-relay opt-in gating.

Docs: design.html + tech.html synced (message counts, ALPN, purge status,
Rework asides flipped past-tense).

190 core tests pass; CLI + desktop build; A3 integration 9/9 (independently
re-run post-purge).

Co-Authored-By: Claude Fable 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>
Claude-Session: https://claude.ai/code/session_01LGiPD2cF75mnvneSCjdDC5

crates/cli/src/main.rs

@@ -248,14 +248,13 @@ async fn main() -> anyhow::Result<()> {
 
     // Start background tasks (v2: mesh connections)
     let _accept_handle = node.start_accept_loop();
-    let _pull_handle = node.start_pull_cycle(300); // 5 min pull cycle
+    let _pull_handle = node.start_pull_cycle(); // 60s tiered pull cycle
     let _diff_handle = node.start_diff_cycle(120); // 2 min routing diff
     let _rebalance_handle = node.start_rebalance_cycle(600); // 10 min rebalance
     let _growth_handle = node.start_growth_loop(); // reactive mesh growth
     let _recovery_handle = node.start_recovery_loop(); // reactive anchor reconnect on mesh loss
     let _checkin_handle = node.start_social_checkin_cycle(3600); // 1 hour social checkin
     let _anchor_handle = node.start_anchor_register_cycle(600); // 10 min anchor register
-    let _upnp_handle = node.start_upnp_renewal_cycle(); // UPnP lease renewal (if mapped)
     let _upnp_tcp_handle = node.start_upnp_tcp_renewal_cycle(); // UPnP TCP lease renewal
     let _http_handle = node.start_http_server(); // HTTP post delivery (if publicly reachable)
     let _bootstrap_check = node.start_bootstrap_connectivity_check(); // 24h isolation check